Yes, I know. It’s been a minute since I last posted. I did the unthinkable and just vanished. Not a word as to my whereabouts or what I was doing during my absence. Thats unforgivable in my opinion. I used to hate when a blogger I followed would just disappear with no explanation why or where they vanished to…..

Here I am doing the very thing I despise in others (not the first time), so I ask that you forgive my absence and hope this post finds you all exceptionally well and enjoying your life.

The reason for my 3 month absence from the bloggersphere is quite simple, complex, happy and sad. I met a Lady, a Woman really, who captivated my very soul. I was surprised by this development and decided to throw caution out the back door and let things happen. Cut to the chase: I got engaged to this blessing in high heels, on August 14th and as Beyonce would say, “I put a ring on it.” Asking a woman to marry you, when you’re my age and come with baggage, is a bold move indeed. But as I say, “if your baggage don’t fit in the trunk of a “71” Corvette Stingray, then leave it at the curb.”

As you can see, the trunk of a “71” Corvette Stingray is VERY small.

So thats what I have been up to…..WHY I have been MIA in the blogging world. I thought those of you who missed me, deserved a reason why I have been absent. Those of you who didn’t miss me, and were happy to see me gone………. I leave you with this……

I’m still the very same Militant you love….or love to hate. Now will I return to blogging???? I have no clue. I miss blogging, I miss my blog. I miss all the hundreds of fellow bloggers I have met since 2011. Well most of the hundreds of bloggers I have met since 2011…I miss. Some…….I do not miss. For those who were close to me and my blog in friendship, I will miss you the most. The support and love shown by so many bloggers to me and my efforts, will never be forgotten by me nor will I stop thinking of the moments we interacted on WORSTPRESS.

I don’t know if I will be back. I don’t know if I will drop in from time to time and reblog the fuck outta you guys, for a day or so, then disappear again. Starting a relationship, then a marriage, is work and takes effort, to do it right. I like to do things right.

I will miss you guys. There are some who were special to me. YOU know whom you are. I will miss you the mostest.


It’s been a pleasure my blogger friends…..and you might, will, may, see me again………….


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15 replies »

  1. Baggage or not, you deserve happiness and love. I’m happy for you. Living your life is so much more fulfilling than worrying about blogging. If you must blog, do it when you can. Don’t worry. We will be fine and just know, we’re pulling for you and your fiance. Congratulations.


  2. Congratulations and best wishes! I shall miss your entertaining posts and your sincerity so don’t leave us forever. 😪 With that said, there’s more to life than blog land. Enjoy every moment of your new life with your new significant other. ❤️


  3. You are on the right track-there is no comparison between the right human being in one’s life and the blog which can always resume, when the time for resumption is right. Your blogs are missed, as are your recipes- and even your diatribes, Have a great Autumn and happiness, as you move towards marriage.


  4. JB, I’m just glad to hear that you are all right. Congratulations, my friend. Sometimes you just gotta move on. I hope to see you around blog land again. Namaste and Blessed be. I’m thrilled for you! ❤


  5. I am so happy for you Veer 💜💜
    The Blogisphere really misses you but life is most important.
    I’m about to email you 💜💜💜🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼


  6. Congratulations on your engagement! Am I going to be invited to the wedding? 🙂 Lots of bloggers took a summer break, and I did check in on you via Twitter. I do miss you but you couldn’t be absent for a greater purpose than falling in love. The BEST to both of you!


  7. Good Thursday Ms. Sameera. It’s always a pleasure to seer you. I will miss your talent and your kind words. I wish you great success here and in the real world. Thank you for the congratulations. Kindess from loving hearts like you, make this bittersweet. I shall be back. 🤗🌺💐🌷💕😎


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